I've done a few over the years but not since 2010 because I didn't need to. I thought about it and it didn't warrant it. Hexing isn't something you should just do. It's something that you need to really think about before you decide what needs to be done. This applies to whatever path you are on.
- why are you doing it? Really think about it.
- what result do you want from the hex?
- how are you going to do the hex?
- which spirits/deities are you going to call to help you with the hex?
- is the hex really necessary? Have you REALLY thought about it? Can it not be solved by communicating to that person that they are being a wanker?
- meditate on it.. ask for guidance, ask for inspiration, ask if it's the right thing to do.
- got the go ahead? Then go for it. If it feels right, it is right.
- teach them a lesson.
- write the details in your book, take some pictures, keep a record.
- don't broadcast it on social media! Don't threaten people on forums that you'll 'hex them til their eyes glow red' cos you sound like a twat, it's stupid and you can't do it! It's not Charmed ffs, grow up.
- there is ALWAYS a price to pay. You cannot exert that much energy and not pay. If you don't know what you're doing - DON'T DO IT! Don't be messing about with this shit... and if you get it out of a book that has a red velvet cover or other fluffy book, then you're a bloody fool and deserve the backlash of your stupidity and ignorance.
How about this. Instead of doing a hex to harm that person who's upset you, how about doing a working, put it into words what that person has done and why you feel wronged. Then ask the Universe to sort them out as it sees fit.
Or teach them a lesson
Someone was being spiteful and hateful. Their lies were really doing harm. So I did a hex to reflect back to them what they were putting out. For them to be gagged by their own poisonous words, to choke on their own venom and when they had learnt the error of their ways, the hex would release them. It's using their own darkness against them. Writing it down, exactly how they are wronging you and reflecting that behaviour back to them often is all that's needed. Ask the Universe to help.... that's all a spell or prayer is really, putting it 'out there'. There are no guarantees. Some people are impervious.
Three fold rule
Yeah, I don't hold with that one bit. Once upon a time, I was afraid, actually afraid to wish retribution on those who had really done me over in case it came back to me. What a load of bollox! It's more of a guideline than a rule anyway... nothing wrong with not being a wanker to people, it's basic good manners really. If you wrong people, you should expect it to return to you. I'm not even Wiccan! It has become a pagan rule, rather than the Wiccan rede that it's supposed to represent. It's been twisted and corrupted by fluffy people who aren't even on that path. Those people who take this 'rule' literally do themselves more harm than good, I speak from my own experience. Most of the time it's been misquoted and that's typical really because pagans put down Christians for doing the same, yet quite happily do the same with the three fold rule. It's open to interpretation like all text. It's part of the Wiccan Rede, if you're going to abide by the Rede, then it should be to ALL the Rede and not the last sentence... plus it has to be fairly irksome to actual Wiccans to have their words misquoted by fluffy people. The Wiccans I've met, have been initiated and trained and don't spout off. Those who follow wicca, aren't Wiccans. Wiccans are those who have been initiated into a coven. Or so I'm led to believe, it's not my area of expertise, so my apologies if I got it wrong or offended anyone - not my intent.
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| I'm not Wiccan, I don't know if this is the actual full rede but it says it is and there's so much on the www it's mad! |
Back to hexing........
Everything I do, comes from within. The ones I have done in the past have been after I asked spirit for guidance. I sat and thought about it for a few days and then if it was right to do, I did a working. For me, it involves fire, fresh sage and rosemary on the fire, alcohol (usually mead), maybe a candle, the poppet I've made, maybe a sharp thing to focus with (hehehe) and my cat Booster - he just likes to sit on my lap when I have a fire. I write down what I want to achieve. I sit by the fire and relax my mind. I ask my guides to come close and to help me with doing what is right. I ask a deity to come close and to give me the go ahead. If I feel it's ok to proceed, I do. Each time has been different. Each time there's been a different deity felt. It does use your energy and you may find you're tired for a couple of days or even feel ill.
You can also apply all of the above to working with poppets. They don't have to be for hexing, they can be used for healing work too. When I visited the Witchcraft museum in Boscastle, they had recently uncovered a secret room of the late Cecil Williamson, full of poppets, curse/hex objects and many other wonderful things. These were put on display in big glass cases and the artifacts are very old. Hexing/cursing is an ancient thing. In Roman baths they have found lead tablets with a prayer to curse a person, folded over and thrown in to the local God/ess there. It's not a new thing. People went to a specialist to do these things. They'd pay them in some form and then leave them to it, happy in the knowledge that the man who stole their pig would be struck down with some horrible disease. What can I say, people have always had the capacity to be petty vindictive dicks lol. The picture below is of a curse tablet found in London. It reads:
"I curse Tretia Maria and her life and mind and memory and liver and lungs mixed up together, and her words, thoughts and memory; thus may she be unable to speak what things are concealed, nor be able." (translation: British Museum) - nice!
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| Wiki article on Curse Tablets |
If you are ever in Cornwall, make sure you visit the Witchcraft museum. It's a wonderful place and I highly recommend it. Read their guide.
If you recall in my blog Glamour, there was a person who was telling people I was going to hex her on the full moon. I haven't because she's not worth my energy. I haven't felt the need to do a working since 2010. And that's why I love Granny Weatherwax, just because you know how to do it, doesn't mean you have to. The tip is knowing when NOT to use magic. Hexing isn't always the way to deal with a situation. Of course there's the added power of Headology... let them think you've done something. Let them twist themselves up thinking you're going to do something. Not that I did, in that particular case, that was all her imagination. I was just as surprised to read I was going to do it as everyone else lol.
There are people who have done such heinous things to me, that I wouldn't want to tap into that hatred I have for them. That's a dark place I don't want to explore. Which is why I haven't seriously fucked them up... and I could but it would cost me more.
THERE IS ALWAYS A PRICE TO PAY.
Remember that...
